Society’s Dwindling Mind-Body Connection- Why It Matters & What You Can Do
Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

Society’s Dwindling Mind-Body Connection- Why It Matters & What You Can Do

Do you often feel that you’re less motivated, more disconnected, burned out, easily irritable, or numb? We live in a society now that is heavily regulated through our interactions with devices that can cause a sense of disconnection between our brain and our body, even though they are intricately connected. This lack of bodily awareness can have long term consequences, but thankfully, awareness of it and some simple solutions can have equally long-term positive impacts. This blog on Movement and Body Awareness will talk about some of those simple strategies.

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CBT Spotlight: Teaching Kids How Emotions Impact Our Choices
Latest, Helping With Children, Tools for Children Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Helping With Children, Tools for Children Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

CBT Spotlight: Teaching Kids How Emotions Impact Our Choices

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on the interactions between our emotions, our thoughts, and our behaviors. These can seem like complex concepts when working with children and teens, but this strategy that I’ll be describing can help even those young minds begin to build their awareness of what is happening inside their brain and how they can help regulate it.

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Let’s Talk About Shame- Yes, You Really Should!
Latest, Strategies for Adults and Teens, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Strategies for Adults and Teens, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

Let’s Talk About Shame- Yes, You Really Should!

Shame is something that can be deeply woven into our everyday interactions, thoughts, and feelings, yet it is rarely a topic among friends, family, or loved ones. We often struggle in shame alone, believing the negative constructs that we don’t allow anyone else to shatter for us. So lets talk about it- how does shame build, how does it latch on, and how can it finally be unwritten.

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Teaching Kids What Emotional Regulation Is- Dr. Siegel’s Hand-Brain Model & Upstairs/Downstairs Model
Latest, Helping With Children, Tools for Children Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Helping With Children, Tools for Children Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

Teaching Kids What Emotional Regulation Is- Dr. Siegel’s Hand-Brain Model & Upstairs/Downstairs Model

Dr. Daniel Siegel, a renowned neuroscientist, developed two models to help explain how our brain engages with our emotions and our Fight-or-Flight Stress Response and how we can engage in regulation strategies to help regain control over our brain’s response. These models not only make it easier for us as adults to understand, but also provide a great way to explain these natural responsesin our brains and bodies to kids.

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When Rewards Don’t Cut It- The Value of Intrinsic Motivation
Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

When Rewards Don’t Cut It- The Value of Intrinsic Motivation

In a time of instant gratification and access to rewards, we can find ourselves struggling with patience and tolerance of our boredom- not just emotionally, but also in the ways our brain develops. When we struggle to regulate our responses to these feelings, we may find ourselves anxious, overwhelmed, or unmotivated. This blog will look at understanding how to use the tools of intrinsic motivation to help regulate how our brains and bodies respond to tasks that don’t immediately reward or interest us.

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The Boundaries We Don’t Often Talk About- The One’s With Ourselves
Latest, Trauma, Strategies for Adults and Teens Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Trauma, Strategies for Adults and Teens Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

The Boundaries We Don’t Often Talk About- The One’s With Ourselves

We hear the phrase “boundaries” everywhere at times and there is ample access to great information out there on what boundaries are and how to help yourself set them, but one aspect that often gets passed over is the idea of setting boundaries with ourselves. It’s something we actually do constantly, but perhaps unconsciously.

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Mastering Those Rainy Day Blues
Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

Mastering Those Rainy Day Blues

It can sometimes feel like rainy days illicit two types of reactions in people- a sense of frustration or a sense of relaxation. For many, rainy days can feel less motivating, more frustrating, and even sad and depressing. Today’s blog will focus on strategies to help counteract any negative feelings that rainy days may be trigger for you.

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You Know Body Positivity, Let’s Talk Body Neutrality
Latest, Mental Health Awareness, Strategies for Adults and Teens Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Mental Health Awareness, Strategies for Adults and Teens Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

You Know Body Positivity, Let’s Talk Body Neutrality

We’ve all heard about body positivity, loving and appreciating the skin we’re in. Too often though, we’re always presented with an end goal and not the steps to realistically get us there. It can leave us feeling frustrated and overwhelmed. This blog is about a precursor to body positivity called Body Neutrality.

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Trauma Bonding- It Might Not Be What You Think It Is
Latest, Trauma, Narcissism Series Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Trauma, Narcissism Series Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

Trauma Bonding- It Might Not Be What You Think It Is

In our current culture, trauma bonding is often misrepresented as a shared experience between two individuals who both have histories of trauma and feel a sense of connection or understanding of each other from those experiences. Clinically, though, trauma bonding is quite the opposite of understanding or a mutual connection. Clinically, trauma bonding is abusive. This is why the misrepresentation is so important to address. Learn what trauma bonding is, how it occurs, and how to help break free from it.

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How Trauma Changes You From The Inside Out
Latest, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

How Trauma Changes You From The Inside Out

In the United States, 70% of adults have experienced a traumatic event in their life. Trauma can physiologically and structurally create changes in our body and brains. The earlier and longer we experience trauma, the more significant those changes may be. Addressing them, though, can lead to impactful change and relief.

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The Growing Imprint of Childhood Trauma
Latest, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

The Growing Imprint of Childhood Trauma

In the US, it is estimated that 1 in 4 children will witness violence at home. Trauma is not a standalone event- meaning the impacts of it often ripple from those traumatized to those they interact with each day. Addressing trauma is a community need. This blog will address those individual and community impacts.

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Trauma and Rage
Latest, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Trauma Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

Trauma and Rage

Does the world seem angrier? Learn about the relationship between those bursts of rage you may experience or see in others around you and a history of trauma.

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The Unseen Weight Of Your Mental Load
Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

The Unseen Weight Of Your Mental Load

Do you ever feel physically exhausted at the end of the day, even if your daily tasks are not really physically demanding? Many people don’t realized that the cognitive demands of their day produces physical effects on their body. Yes, you can get physically tired, have physical symptoms, and develop physical ailments from an overly-stressed mental load. Learn what to do about it here.

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When Your Loved One Has ADHD- a look at the impact of ADHD on adult relationships
Latest, Strategies for Adults and Teens, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC Latest, Strategies for Adults and Teens, Mental Health Awareness Jaclyn Wesolowski, MA, LCPC

When Your Loved One Has ADHD- a look at the impact of ADHD on adult relationships

Building an understanding of the psychological and biological impacts of ADHD can be critical for BOTH partners in a relationship, meaning those with ADHD and their partner. Learn about what you may need to know and why it can make a big difference in maintaining a healthy relationship.

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